For the last several months a certain very important sub in my life has been suggesting-in her own subtle and inimitable way, that I should begin a blog.
For the most part I've avoided the notion--primarily due to the desire to save my fellow man (and woman) from the meanderings of a slightly over the hill Second Life miscreant....however after a great deal of cajoling I finally decided to place my foot into the waters of the Internet--after checking of course to see who is upstream pissing in it....
9 months ago--to the day--Ember and I joined (translated she came over to my private land and bitched and yelled til I finally told her to clear her collar)--at the time I had a certain distinct philosophy of being a dominant--which essentially amounted to setting a direction, providing advise, and if the sub didn't like it--the EXIT door was clearly marked.
Make no mistake--After 4 1/2 years in this reality I'm perfectly capable of using most common collars and cuffs that populate SL (btw did I mention we're building a set of our own to foist upon the market?--buy buy buy...) but frankly any such Second Life devices are roleplay-its the person's mind I want to leave some traces on....and the only way I know how to go about doing this is by being as attentive as possible and looking for ways to help/improve.
The downside to this approach is that eventually I'd get burned out, the sub would become bored, "something" would happen and we'd part ways.....welcome to Second Life where the feelings are just as intense--and emotional entropy progresses that much more rapidly because of it.
After 9 months--for the first time--not only am I not bored--I eagerly look forward to the next curve on the path ahead--we've struck that delicate balance I strove for--two individuals who can enjoy and share this reality-and continue to push and teach each other....so to my baby girl, my partner, my sub, my best friend--I look forward to what we will create together. We share everything completely and without hesitation--and I can't imagine it any other way.
Anyone who knows me--knows us--is well aware of the fact that we are engaged in a number of things--when I looked back at the last 9 months I realized we'd accomplished more together than I have in the last 3 1/2 years of SL--
* Rebuilding the Bondage Playground
* Founding our *GEL* Product line (over 80 products ranging from RLV/Bondage gear to clothing)
* Assisting with the Adult Hub
And for those who believe that we're all about business--
* We RPed a pregnancy (twins-go figure-however I'm refusing to pay palimony)
* We went on a hell of a lot of hunts, sim hops (see Em's blog)
* And yea--we're even taking classes on how to become better dom and sub to each other--why? because we both believe the other person deserves our absolute best--and this relationship is special to us both.
I believe that the most important thing in SL to keep a relationship fresh is to continue to set a plan--so hold onto your hats more in store but we plan on
* Marrying (rlv is a wonderful thing--)
* Learning Mesh
* and founding a SIM to allow Ember to finally unleash her own special vision of how to help others (more to come on that)
So--to a year ahead with dreams, plans --we look forward to continuing to share our lives with you all.
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